Guilt Shame and Blame

Say NO To Guilt, Shame And Blame

Guilt is one of those emotions that feeds on itself. With every bite it gets a little heavier.” – Robert E. Dunn

SadAboutMistakes-AngelReadingsByZARAEverybody has made mistakes in the past. Sometimes in remembering those mistakes, the tendency is to feel very bad, feeling guilt, shame and blame.  But it isn’t necessary to have those feelings, as long as we learn from our mistakes and are willing to make important adjustments.

Since late June, 2008, I have been discovering that virtually everyone seems to be going through huge changes in their personal lives. These changes are caused by events beyond our control. Just about everyone has been hurled into extremely challenging situations concerning issues, which until recently, had remained hidden, covered up, or just beyond reach.

Now these issues are right here in front of our faces. Because they are immediate and intense, they are often very difficult for us to handle. What is actually happening is that secrets that prevented us from knowing what was really going on for a very long time are rapidly coming to the surface and becoming obvious.

As Archangel Michael has indicated, the reason for the revealing of these secrets is that in order to enlighten us, the Angels and masters have been sending a huge amount of blue-spectrum God energy into our planetary atmosphere. This energy is causing dark-force energies to be exposed, while concurrently, those on the side of light are obviously demonstrating honor, courage and commitment to the good.

With all of the Archangel Michael blue-spectrum energy flowing in, great spiritual challenges are naturally taking place. Which is forcing everyone on the planet to choose between the light and the dark, and unfortunately, not everyone is prepared to choose the light.

Right and Wrong Choices

As this time of separating the wheat from the chaff is upon us, it’s important to consciously choose to do what’s right in your daily life. Because there is less gray area, standing up for what’s right is becoming even more important than ever before.

Everyone has made mistakes in their past, and everyone has plenty of opportunity to make more mistakes in their near future…

RightOrWrongChoice-AngelReadingsByZARAEveryone gets tempted to take the easy way out of a situation, just as everyone is tempted to do something to make the wrong choice, from time to time.

For people dedicated to the light, if you find that you have given in to an inappropriate temptation or made a mistake…

  1. STOP and reflect on what just happened
  2. Decide what the proper action would have been
  3. Mentally rehearse doing that in future situations
  4. If anyone was hurt or injured by your actions, make amends.
    • This may require the assistance of a competent Intuitive Spiritual Counselor.
  5. Then move on…
    • No guilt
    • No shame
    • No blame.
  6. Just move on…knowing you will do it right next time!

When we are tested…

We are all tested during our lifetime…but please recognize that at this particular time, anyone who does not consciously choose the light when tested, either wittingly or unwittingly is choosing the dark.

So for instance, if a person is given the opportunity to stand up for goodness and fails to do so because of fear, laziness, lack of faith, or whatever, they aid the dark side.

Then, even though they may think of themselves as a “good” person, they fail that particular spiritual test. At that point, unless they quickly recognize their error and change their ways, they may actually become an unwitting lackey of the dark side.

Bad behavior when repeated becomes a bad habit.

You are only responsible for yourself…

SupportFriends-AngelReadingsByZARADo not blame yourself if your friends and relatives fail. With their current knowledge and spiritual level, they are making the best choices they know how to make.

  • – Pray for them.
  • – Be there for them.
  • – Model appropriate behavior for        them.
  • – Call them on their bad behavior.
  • – Don’t let them drag you down into their problems.
  • – Don’t loan them your money.

And, most importantly, be aware that you are not responsible for decisions that other grown people make. You are only responsible for yourself.

You cannot force others to choose the light; you can only choose it for yourself. Then as long as you believe in yourself, and trust in the guidance you receive from God and the Angels, making adjustments where necessary, you will not only be helpful in the cause of light, but you yourself will be able to get through the shift with flying colors.


Through Angel Readings, Spiritual Counseling, and the use of a pendulum, the Angels and I are here to help. We can help clear negativity from your past, help you answer some of your deepest life questions, and help you make the right choices that will bring you joy and happiness no matter what is going on around you.

We can help you discover if you are an Incarnated Angel, what your purpose is, how to accomplish your “Angel Work”, or receive guidance for a happier, more meaningful life.

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