Control Your Life

Are You In Total Control Of Your Own Life?

Is Everything Your Fault?

Negativity-AngelReadingsByZARAThe modern idea that everything that happens in your life is a product of YOUR creation is an irritatingly crazy-making concept that causes people to feel that whatever malady or oppressive situation they are faced with is ultimately their fault. The modern idea I’m referring to says that whatever goes wrong in your life is always due to incorrect thinking, or being too negative. Another aspect is that certain teachings try to convince you that all one needs to do is think a certain way, then everything will be hunky-dory. From my experience, this sometimes works, but not always. Life is uncertain, no matter what you think or do.

We cannot control everything in our lives…

While we all may be somewhat complicit with things that go wrong in our lives, the fact remains that many things that happen around us are beyond our control. I’ve noticed that while much of the new age community holds to the belief that everything that happens in a person’s life is a product of their creation, the obvious common sense truth is that there are other minds and other forces in the universe that have their say and influence concerning things that actually happen in each of our lives.

Thankfully, each of us definitely has the power to make positive changes in our lives through right thinking and actions. Even so, we don’t control everything. In fact, the view that your mind controls everything is based on the narcissistic ancient philosophy of solipsism, defined by the Merrimam-Webster dictionary as “a theory holding that the self can know nothing but its own modifications and that the self is the only existent thing, also : extreme egocentrism”.

Such a belief is opposed to common sense and rational thinking. Yet such a belief is seriously espoused by some. This belief is the source of a great deal of heartache as people genuinely having a difficult time in their lives are thus led to blame themselves for all their problems regardless of whatever facts and circumstances they’re faced with.

Attacked by the Dark Side…

DarkSideAttack-AngelReadingsByZARAI once had a client I’ll call Nancy who talked to me on the phone several times before she came to me in person. She hesitated coming to me for such a long time because she wasn’t feeling well and had a hard time getting out of the house to go to any appointment at all.

When I looked at her, I could tell she was in dire straits. She showed a weakness of body that was obvious as soon as she walked in. As we talked during her session, she told me that she had been suffering from an undefined respiratory problem for years, and that it caused her to be very weak. Doctors told her they didn’t know specifically what her disease was or how to fix it. Nothing they did worked, and her problem persevered.

Nancy told me that before the malady hit her, she had been attending a spiritual study group in Alaska, where she then lived, and that her community of friends were accepting and loving to her when she was well. After her illness began, they still seemed compassionate for several months. They chanted and said prayers over her, but when Nancy’s health showed no sign of improvement, they turned on her.

They decided, as a group, that the problem was not the malady Nancy was suffering, but Nancy herself. Since their healing efforts didn’t make her better, they decided her problem was her fault and was obviously the result of her bad karma. They told her that the problem was that she wasn’t thinking right.

Nancy was dumbfounded, because she did her best to believe in the healing efforts the group had been performing, and she knew for sure she was deeply spiritual. She used positive affirmations as much as possible, her diet and health practices were good, and she had done everything right according to every bit of information she possessed.

The people in the group evidently felt the need to blame someone rather than coming to the obvious conclusion that some maladys are simply stubborn, and that not everything bad that happens in a person’s life is the result of that person’s karma. Sometimes good gets attacked simply because it’s good, and good people can get attacked just because they are a threat to the dark side.

What I received from the angels, and told Nancy in the reading, was that she was a very high level good angel, and that was the reason she was being energetically attacked by the dark side. I told her she was an Incarnated Angel, and she has an important spiritual mission on this earth that the dark side absolutely did not want her to accomplish, which is why she was being sabotaged.

When I said these words, Nancy broke out in tears. When she regained her composure, she told me she knew she was an angel when her affliction first began, but that after continuing to hang out with the group over the next several months, and listening to their indictment of her, she had finally succumbed to believing that her affliction was her fault. Even though she had fully supported their healing efforts, and had been doing all she could to cooperate and think positively, it was still her fault that she was sick.

They didn’t just blame her for being sick. They also became belligerent to her. They treated her like she was unworthy and turned their backs on her. This added mental and emotional anguish to the mix, and made Nancy feel like chopped liver. She had already done everything she could to heal and get better, and to think as positively as she could, and to hear, on top of that, that her illness was HER FAULT was more than she could bear. She started to believe that they were right, and that made her feel even worse.

Understanding can bring peace…

PowerOfUnderstanding-AngelReadingsByZARABesides my telling her she was an Incarnated angel, I also received the understanding that the reason she had the affliction was that she was such a good and powerful angel that the Dark Side was going after her to try to stop her from fulfilling her mission of helping others…her angel work. She said she had absolutely known that from the beginning when she first got sick, but that hanging out with the group and listening to their nonsense had finally convinced her that they were right, which had caused her to feel even more miserable as she blamed herself for the very problem she had no power to control.

After Nancy’s initial session, she reported that she felt much better. In fact, she reported that physically, as well as emotionally, she felt better than she had in years. She was now at peace.

It is certainly true that through positive thoughts and actions, we can definitely affect how many things go in our lives. I have noticed that in my own as well as in the lives of thousands of clients I’ve worked with.  People, especially with my help through counseling and clearing, can get out of bad situations and into much better experiences by redirecting their thoughts and actions into positivity and dynamic success.

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