If You Don’t Fit In, Should You Conform?
“I think the reward for conformity is that everyone likes you except yourself.” – Rita Mae Brown
The question that I’m posing is:
Is in today’s world, if you don’t fit in, should you conform so you do, even if it’s against your own values?
The degradation of moral values is so obvious in today’s society it’s beyond belief, and certainly outside of anyone’s prediction from 30 years ago. In my lifetime, I have watched people’s values go from fairly decent and moral to generally depraved.
In my opinion…
In my opinion, the main reason for the huge changes is actually caused by top-down “culture creation” created by sinister forces designed to weaken society in order to rule and control. But, for the life of me, I can’t understand why people, in general, are so easy to manipulate!
If you are either an Incarnated Angel, or a very Angelic person, you may know what I mean. People falling under either of those angelic categories typically see things completely differently from the masses who allow themselves to get sucked in by nonsense. The Incarnated Angels and angelic humans, together do their best to avoid following along with trends and ideas they believe are actually darkside. When others around them plan to participate in something the Incarnated Angels feel is wrong or degraded, the Incarnated Angel will not go along.
What part does the dark side play?
So much of that which is presented as popular and cool through today’s media is simply darkside propaganda designed to corrupt normally decent people and turn them into weak and immoral fools. Although even Incarnated Angels and Angelic Humans do get sucked in part of the time, they are better than average in resisting negative trends. For this reason, Incarnated Angels and Angelic Humans feel like they don’t fit in.
The best thing any of us, the Incarnated Angels and Angelic Humans, can do in the face of all the trickery and deceit set before us through the media and other avenues, is to recognize the traps for what they are. We must refuse the emotional connection that the manipulators attempt to sell us on, and consciously emerge unscathed.
How one woman held on to her values…
In one of the Angel Readings I did with a certain client I’ll call Debby, (not her real name), one of the things she shared with me was this…
She liked to go on vacation with her husband and several couple-friends, and did so frequently. But she didn’t like to drink with them when they went too far and actually got drunk.
She didn’t mind having one glass of wine with them during dinner.
But afterwards, while the group wanted to order more drinks, (which she knew would lead to their full inebriation), Debby had the habit of excusing herself and then going upstairs to her hotel room, where she curled up in bed with a good book.
Debby said that while she liked her friends under normal circumstances, she couldn’t stand their energy when they got drunk.
It is true that when people sit around drinking together, they get louder and more obnoxious as time goes on. (Those drinking barely notice this, but it’s very obvious to everyone around who is not over indulging.) How her friends behaved when drunk would always seem okay to them because they were all doing it, but to Debby, (who was sober), their loud and raucous behavior was something of a turn-off.
Although none of Debby’s friends actually complained about her excusing herself from the table, but she definitely felt they didn’t like her leaving, and she definitely felt out of sync. Nevertheless, she knew she couldn’t participate regardless of whether they felt comfortable about it or not. And even though this whole situation was another indication that Debby didn’t fit in, she had to live with “being different.”
So what if you don’t fit in?
The fact is, in general, Incarnated Angels and Angelic Humans do not fit in. And that’s okay! The reason for this is, as I said before, Incarnated Angels are more aware than others of the enticing traps set out by the darkside. They don’t want to start down the road that could lead to their getting trapped by things or situations that may look innocent and appealing, but in fact, can be deadly.
In the example above, while everyone knows that drinking too much can lead to alcoholism and the terrible problems that accompany it, many people erroneously believe that the laws of health and physics don’t apply to them. So, like the people in Debby’s story, the people are participating in a behavior that could lead to their individual downfalls. Yet they continue, because they are “enjoying” the process. That foolish attitude comes from ego and foolishness, and many people get sucked in. Eventually, their lives are frequently marred or ruined in direct proportion to their drinking habits.
When you choose the right path…
The Incarnated Angels, on the other hand, have a strong tendency to realize that if they start down the road of drinking too much, they will begin something that could lead to heartache and downfall. Something they try to avoid.
So, while it’s not always comfortable to not fit in with others, it’s worth it. If you are trying to live your life rightly, (in a way that will lead to happiness and to create a platform on which you can manifest your purpose and creativity), others may not like it at times. And at times it may be hard for you as well. But regardless of how difficult it is to do the right thing, and how different it makes you feel, going down the path of “right” living leads to happiness.
Doing the right things consistently, regardless of how different and on the outside it makes you feel in the short term, will definitely help your life be happier, more meaningful, and ultimately more blessed in the long term.
Through Angel Readings, Spiritual Counseling, and the use of a pendulum, the Angels and I are here to help. We can help clear negativity from your past, help you answer some of your deepest life questions, and help you make the right choices that will bring you joy and happiness no matter what is going on around you.
Together with the Angels, I can help you discover if you are an Incarnated Angel, what your purpose is, how to accomplish your “Angel Work”, or receive guidance for a happier, more meaningful life.
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